I recently finished reading Vanessa Diffenbaugh’s
novel “Language of Flowers.” Story about a contemporary young
woman, orphaned as a baby, with unsavory experiences through state adoption
agencies/orphanages, and how she deals with life outside of the system once she turns 18. In one of many foster homes, she had acquired
knowledge of flowers and their use during Victorian Era as messages, and memorized the meanings of flowers. She’s ill equipped to interact and communicate well with
others, but unerringly knows just the right flower a person needs. The concept
intrigued me.
Since I seem to take a lot of floral photographs, I thought it would be interesting to find out the
meanings of the flowers around me in my sister Melba’s garden.
Right now on my desk next to my computer is a vase of exquisite
peonies in full blossom. They take away my breath; they are so elegant and
magnificent! There is a sense of abandonment to their full out blooming!
I googled peony and found several different meanings. For
thousands of years the Chinese have revered the peony as representing Riches
and Honor. The Japanese, too, have a similar meaning.
On a different tangent, there is a long history of use of
peony in Japanese tattoos, where peony takes on a connotation of masculine disregard for
consequence, or a devil may care attitude. However, it strikes me as odd that,
as an element of tattoo, the peony is sometimes a reference to the
Virgin Mary in Catholic societies. Although in retrospect, I suppose the Virgin Mary had to have
extraordinary bravery in her time and society in carrying and nurturing Jesus.
Then in the Victorian Era, with its exchange of notes and
letters, the meaning of peony became one of bashfulness or shame. One look at a
peony and you’ll see there is nothing bashful about a peony, more like
unabashed. I don’t understand the shame connotation, except maybe the flower is
so lush, it was deemed that it should be ashamed.
I look again at all of these meanings that have been
attributed to the peony and I can see similarities in meaning colored by
context of different eras and social conventions.
The peony is going to be what it is, regardless of the era,
regardless of cultural mores and human labels.
Then ... the Poppy ... I wonder about its back story ...
